We are sick with fascination for the useful tools of names and numbers, of symbols, signs, conceptions and ideas. Meditation is therefore the art of suspending verbal and symbolic thinking for a time, somewhat as a courteous audience will stop talking when a concert is about to begin.”
Alan Watts
As a neuroscientist, despite my initial incredulity, I came to realize that yoga works not because the poses are relaxing, but because they are stressful. It is your attempts to remain calm during this stress that create yoga’s greatest neurobiological benefit.”
Brad Feld really has a way about him. Doesn’t watching this make you want to be a part of that community?
I’ve been lone-wolfing for too long (more on that story). We all seem to have a kind of lone-wolfy knee-jerk default setting.
Maybe it comes from a narcissistic impulse or a survival mechanism or the fear of having the smallest wiener in the locker room.
Whatever it is, the vision Mr. Feld lays out here is intoxicating and I want it.
“The most challenging thing for a young entrepreneur is to think long-term.
When you are 22 years old, it’s hard to think in 22-year increments since that’s as long as you’ve been alive. But it’s really important to view your life as an entrepreneur as a long journey that consists of many short-term cycles. It’s relatively easy to focus on the short-term cycle, such as the 90 days of an accelerator program; it’s a lot harder to think about the next decade and how what you are doing today impacts where you want to be ten years from now.”
The concept of the long haul has been bouncing around in me for a while. But no one’s made me think about it quite the way Mr. Feld has.
For more from him (and on this concept) check out this interview. This was my introduction to Mr. Feld… I became an instant groupie.
Face reality.”
What a phenomenal interview. Mr. Colonna can feel a little on the precious side at times but the insights and point of view he brings are gutsy and pungent for me. Remind me of this in a year.
I’ve been listening to this show for about 30 episodes or so. At first I couldn’t stand Calcannis. That’s many peoples’ knee-jerk reaction to him. But he’s growing on me. I think there’s a little more under the surface than I thought.
And I certainly applaud the guy for getting on such great founders and sharing these conversations. I’ve gleaned a ton from them.
The first third of every project is building scaffolding. Don’t fear waste. Don’t fear redundancy. Don’t fear inefficiency. Yet.”
The balance between scaffolding and the finished product is tricky.
I recently shipped a large project (the scaffolding of which is pictured above). It’s a training course on the essentials of website design for people who who are building their own business. It’s that rare connection of “something I care a great deal about” + “something I know a great deal about.” (There’s a video from the course and more about info about it here).
Throughout the project I moved back and forth between scaffolding (notes on a card or post-it note) and polished words a few times as the structure of the thing emerged over time.
I’d create the bones and say, “yea, that’s good.”
And then I’d write it out and stumble on something that was unclear. I’d work to push through the ambiguity and realize I need to restructure the scaffolding a bit.
This back and forth is a bit harrowing. There’s (more…)
If you have to depend on blurbs to have people buy your magazine then you’ve got a piece of shit! You don’t have a brand!”
The same goes for blog post headlines. Note to self: care less about “viral headline lessons.” Care less about short term “conversion” and more about the long term relationship with your audience. Stand for something. Be something. Have conviction. Build a brand.
…when you’re a kid, everything seems possible. When you think about doing something, the time between thinking about doing it and actually doing it is usually very brief. You say, “Hey, what if I do that?” and then you’re doing it. As an adult, you think, “I want to do this thing,” or, “I want to make something.” Then you start gathering resources and devising a plan, but then you get tired because you’re old and want to lay down. ”
The most remarkable look I’ve ever seen was the face of my wife when labor started to really set in on our first son.
We were about 54 hours in (Yes, 54 hours) and something switched. It was no longer “grin and bear it.” It became more of a “THE FUCK!?” kind of thing.
That’s when she looked up at me with these doe eyes, like a deer in headlights. It all became a bit too much and a confused 2 year old inside her locked eyes with the only face in the room she recognized.
It’s been 4 years since that look and we’re about to see it again.
With our first son we’ve already come through hell and high water — though I’m sure there’s plenty of clamor and chaos to survive through yet.
Through all of my love and mania and businessing and scheming and partnering and filming and designing and relationshipping that look cuts through, reminds me what matters.
Sometimes you have to find a familiar face and latch on. I hope I can be that face for Mellisa, Aiden and the soon to arrive Rowan. Wish us luck.
One of the things you’re supposed to work out some time in your adolescence is that though you’re the star of your own life, you’re not the star of anyone else’s. Some companies never work this out.”